Become A Man Who Can Attract, Keep, & Cultivate A Harmonious Fulfilling Relationship
Whether You’re Single Or Already In A Relationship
Would you like to...
Be with a woman who loves, respects and appreciates you for who you are, who supports you in your goals, and is proud to call you her man.
Become the man who can navigate relationship conflicts—because, let's admit it, conflict WILL be there regardless of what you do— with confidence and composure?
Have the ability to build a relationship where instead of walking on eggshells and avoiding confrontation, it's grounded in open, honest communication that builds deep connection and intimacy?
Define or sharpen a clear purpose for your life, so you're grounded in it and, as a side-effect, both you and the woman you choose trust your direction?
Learn to perform and lead at the highest level both in your professional life and your personal life?
Then I have something very important to tell you.
The path to become this man—and attract and keep these relationships in your life—is VERY achievable.
You just have to develop and refine just a few powerful skills.
Now, from my work with hundreds of men life yourself...
I've identified a few problems that keep men from achieving this kind of romantic success in life (whether they're single, or already in a relationship; the problem remains the same either way).
And these same problems often create a ceiling in their professional life.
You see...
If you're single...
You're either avoiding relationships entirely, telling yourself all kinds of stories about why now isn't the right time...
When in reality, there might be fear of rejections or past hurts holding you back.
OR...
You've got a pattern of short relationships that end just as intensely as they started...
And you're continuing this pattern without knowing how to break it but hoping it does off sheer luck.
On the other hand...
If you're already in a relationship...
Your friends ask you how's it going with that woman, and you say it's "good" with a subtly dismissive tone.
Your girlfriend or wife is constantly combating you, questioning your decisions, and being hyper-critical of you, making you feel like she doesn't respect you or appreciate all your hard work and effort.
And you struggle to set healthy boundaries around your communication and enforce them successfully.
You just pray for her to give you a break, to stop fighting all the time, and to just be your place of peace... But you don't know how to make that happen, and wonder if it's you that's doing something wrong.
Now, after having worked with over 500 clients who are both single and in a relationship, I've recognized that...
Whether you're single or in a relationship, the problem is the SAME.
And when you understand where it comes from, and follow a few simple steps long enough to see results...
You become the man who's worthy of attracting AND keeping healthy love in his life.
And as a result, you also attract dream opportunities in your professional life.
This is why, after having helped over 500 clients solve this problem...
I've opened the STEEL program...
Where we'll go over exactly what's keeping the beautiful, healthy, burning love you want away from your life (yes, even if you're already in a relationship).
And we'll solve the problem at the root.
Once we do, the all of other problems you're experiencing will come crashing down like a house of cards.
Now, I won't give you a woo-woo solution with an ayahuasca ceremony or sage burning in the air.
Instead, once you join STEEL…
Here's how I'm going to help you become a high performing leader:
1. For three months straight, we'll meet once a week and have an introspective conversation grounded in REAL facts, RAW feelings, and the RELEVANT focus on the simple yet powerful actions that will bring the RESULTS & fruit that you've been struggling to achieve on your own.
Part of this will be a matter of breaking habits. Whether it's poor communication habits, sleep habits or coping mechanisms. The other part will be replacing those poor habits, systematically.
As we get deeper, we'll uncover disempowering stories and beliefs— parts of you that must die. And trust me, if you haven't met the right person, or already are in a relationship but don't feel respected and loved, the root problem is often easy to find—and once you find it, it loses power over you.
And once it loses power over you, you step into the man who can easily set boundaries, and lead the relationship from a healthy masculine state that inspires his women's soft femininity (whether you already have one, or don't have one yet).
2. As you're getting dialed in at the next level, we'll be increasing the weight of your word— stacking evidence to prove indisputable evidence of the man you're becoming.
In a world full of men who've lost the art of masculine leadership, the easiest way to stand out and succeed in your love life and your professional life is to become known for your discipline, integrity and accountability.
To be a man who speaks only truth. A man who's word holds the weight of a legal contract. Whether it's a big promise or even the smallest of agreements like taking out the trash, being on time, or saying you'll start a new habit on Monday.
Once we've mastered the basics and laid a foundation we can confidently build upon, we will move onto the skills that bring both external results and internal peace.
3. We will focus on developing both communication skills AND emotional regulation so that you can actually leverage your communication skills regardless of how difficult the conversation.
You see, every time your partner communicates something to you (positively or poorly), and you react in ANY way that's not calm, collected, and confident... She loses trust in you.
And her loss of trust in you leads to a loss of respect for you as a man, making her not feel safe and secure in a relationship with you.
Over time, this destroys the attraction, passion, intimacy, where she feels the need to lead and—quite literally—become the masculine in the relationship.
But once we develop your communication skills and the emotional regulation requires to leverage those skills (which is pretty simple once you learn the basic principles)...
You'll either be able to attract a high-caliber, feminine woman who goes crazy for that version of you...
Or if you're already in a relationship, you'll feel like your woman has magically "changed" overnight.
And if your relationship transformation is anything like mine was...
You'll be waking up to bj's and coming home to a clean house and a warm meal (no promises but definitely possible).
4. And because the only time I've ran into any speed bumps facilitating this transformation was when a man's hormones were completely out of whack, I hired a functional medicine team to run a urinalysis to help optimize your testosterone—but I'll tell you more about that later on.)
And finally...
5. We'll build—and follow-through with—a plan to either attract the right relationship into your life, or to solve the specific challenges you're experiencing in your relationship that require more attention.
If you're currently single, we'll do this by designing your lifestyle in a way that creates consistent opportunity to meet high-caliber women who align with your vision, interests and values— at which point you'll be equipped with the confidence and communication tools to navigate dating seamlessly.
And if you're in a relationship, we'll undo certain habits and patterns as you step into the healthy masculine leader who's not only decisive and assertive but sets and enforces healthy boundaries that makes your woman love and respect you at a level you never thought possible—putting a stop to the consistent conflict, disconnection and sexual dissatisfaction you've been settling for.
Book a call with me personally so we can connect and make sure it's a good fit.
If it is, we will get straight to work!
STEEL provides men with the guidance, structure, tools, and brotherhood, to transform themselves into disciplined, confident leaders who excel in every domain of life— moving with clear direction and purpose, while cultivating harmonious fulfilling relationships as a healthy masculine man who holds himself to the highest standard.
What Separates STEEL From The Rest
✅ Structured yet customizable – Men are held accountable to a rigorous, measurable system while still having the ability to adjust the pace based on their own lives.
✅ Masculine accountability and leadership – Not a place for excuses, just radical ownership unlocking complete dominion over each area of their life while free of guilt & shame.
✅ Gamified system for long-term discipline – Success is tracked, measured & celebrated helping you build unstoppable momentum away from the pit you're in towards the peak you're pursuing.
Don't Take My Word For It
Hear from the men who have transformed their lives through the principles of STEEL.
These are the stories of real men - Successful Business Men, Marine Corps & Army Combat Veterans, Church Pastors, Fire Fighters, Construction Contractors, Cyber-Security Specialists, Engineers - You name it.
Men who rebuilt their confidence, leadership, & purpose and are now thriving in their health, relationships, spirituality and careers/businesses.
Jesse - Marine Corps Combat Veteran, Fire Fighter & Entrepreneur
Chandler - Wealth & Legacy Protection Expert
William - Swiss Cyber Security Expert
Joey - Hollywood Movie Set Constructor & Content Creator
500+ Clients | ZERO Refund Requests
STEEL
3 Month Group Coaching Program
Here’s what you’ll get when you join:
We will meet weekly to uncover & overcome the internal blocks that will LIBERATE you to begin building the leader within.
Once liberated from these patterns, we will begin building the discipline & integrity that cultivates unshakable confidence.
From there, we will move into developing the communication skills & emotional regulation that will empower you to attract, keep and cultivate a successful love life with relative ease.
💥 3 Force Multiplier Bonuses:
Monthly 1:1 Deep Dive Coaching Sessions With Dylan— Providing a customized container for skill refinement & personal problem solving.
Full Access To Power Partner Academy— A self-paced course taught by my wife and I to help you unlock the secrets to navigating difficult conversations, women's crazy hormones & the chemistry behind sustaining the passion & attraction.
Hormone Testing, Result Consultation & Personalized Protocol Provided By STEEL's Functional Medicine Team— Providing a clear path to optimal health, both mentally, physically & emotionally.
WHO IS DYLAN WARTER?
In 2018, eighteen months after his partner was shot and killed covering his shift, Dylan walked away from his job in the prime of his career as a Decorated Detective of The New Orleans S.W.A.T. Team with no idea what he was going to do with his life.
He found himself standing in the mirror, drunk (again), looking at a man who was 50 pounds heavier than he had ever been. He was working 80+ hours a week, battling depression, coping with alcohol and destroying his relationship with his now ex-fiancé.
Shortly after, they called off the wedding and ended a 5 year relationship. He was now single, struggling with insecurities, and overwhelmed with guilt, shame and anger. He had lost of all his discipline, felt unworthy and when he looked in the mirror, he saw a man he no longer believed in.
Feeling unequipped to deal with the traumas of both his childhood and former career, and now searching for a new purpose that wouldn't kill him, he embarked on an intense journey of healing & personal development.
Dylan took the approach of first learning new techniques, modalities and strategies and then leveraged them to facilitate much of his own healing, growth and development. He found that much of what was out there was too complex, often ineffective and too "woo-woo". He wanted practical, manual ways to solve inner problems and actually see the results progress in real time.
Dylan has now spent 100's of thousands of dollars in education and mentorship, acquiring the knowledge, skills and experience to systematically transform every single area of his life and has now facilitated similar transformations for over 500 clients throughout the last 6 years.
Through this experience he was in constant search for the most simple yet effective way to systematically help men transform any and every area of their lives and in that relentless search, he was able to distill it all down to STEEL, that is not only a system but a brotherhood and a standard that turns men into high-performing healthy masculine leaders.
Naturally, having the relationship success stand out far beyond his business success, he chose to leave the world of business consulting and performance coaching in order to fuse everything he's learned into place that solves man's most painful problem, love.
As a successful coach, speaker and investor, Dylan is happily married to his smoke-show wife, now writing his first book and working on having his first child.
THE STEEL STANDARD
The STEEL Standard is about living with purpose, discipline, integrity and accountability every single day.
It’s not about being perfect—it’s about showing up, doing the work, becoming a man of your word and striving to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be, which is a pin that will continuously move as you unlock new levels of potential and purpose in your life.
It's about the dedication to mastering the version of you who can cultivate a harmonious fulfilling relationship, elite health and fitness, financial prosperity and a relationship with God that will fill all of your endeavors with peace, joy and fulfillment.
This Is Your Moment
This is the moment where most men make a choice—they either finally take action, or they talk themselves out of it (again). And let’s be honest: if you don’t make the move right now, you won’t do it later. You’ll close out of this page, go back distracting & sedating yourself from the truth, and a year from now, you’ll be in the exact same place—except worse.
So if you’re even considering booking the call, do it now so you don't rob yourself of another opportunity to finally break through to the next level of you as a man and the life you're longing to live.
THE FURNACE
Scottsdale, AZ | 2-Day Event
Date: March TBD | Venue: TBD
Steel isn’t made; it’s forged. The process begins with raw, unrefined iron—impure and weak. To become steel, it must be placed into a furnace, where extreme heat burns away its impurities and leaves behind only what is strong. The fire reshapes it, strengthens it, and prepares it to endure.
The same is true for men.
When you step into The Furnace, you’ll face the fire. The fire exposes the lies you’ve been living with—the fears, insecurities, habits, and coping mechanisms that have weakened you as a leader, a partner, and a man. It will burn away the excuses that have held you back and the impurities that have kept you from being who you’re meant to be.
The process won’t be comfortable. You’ll face truths you’ve been avoiding and emotions you’ve been running from. But just like steel, the fire doesn’t destroy you—it refines you. Through challenges, truth, and the brotherhood around you, you’ll rebuild the foundation of who you are. You’ll leave stronger, more disciplined, and forged to withstand life’s pressures.
The man who enters The Furnace is not the man who will emerge. The weak version of you dies here. What remains is a man ready to lead himself, his relationships, and his purpose with unshakable strength and confidence.
Are you ready to face the fire?
THE TUNGSTEN COUNCIL
ELITE MASTERMIND
Not all steel is created equal. The strongest, most resilient form of metal is tungsten—able to withstand the greatest pressures and the highest heat. It’s forged through precision and refinement, just like the men who are invited into the Tungsten Council.
The Tungsten Council is not for every man. It’s for those who have met the Standard of STEEL and have the fruit to prove it—men who have proven their discipline, integrity, and strength, and are ready to pursue what most would call impossible. This is where great men become extraordinary.
As a member of Tungsten, you will refine your leadership and focus while tackling your biggest goals with precision and purpose. Together with an elite brotherhood of men who uphold the same standard, you’ll challenge limits, collaborate on solutions, and return stronger with every cycle.
The founding council members are comprised of a group of men Dylan runs with. Men who have the knowledge, skills, experience and expertise to help you take ever area of your life to the next level.
What Tungsten Offers:
Relentless Growth: Weekly Coaching Calls with council members only, to maintain momentum, accountability, to continuously take life, fitness, relationship, business and building wealth to the next level.
Elite Collaboration: Quarterly mastermind events designed for men to return and report their progress, bring their most pressing challenges, and leverage the wisdom and resources of the brotherhood to find solutions.
Exclusive Access: Monthly Round Table Cigar Nights With Founding Council Members.
Tungsten is not a program; it’s a proving ground. The men here are not satisfied with “good enough.” They’re building legacies that endure. As iron sharpens iron, so does the brotherhood within Tungsten elevate each man to his fullest potential.
This is not for the faint of heart or the man looking for shortcuts. It’s for leaders who are ready to achieve the impossible, inspire those who follow, and leave a mark that lasts.
INVITATION ONLY
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Specialized Units & Business Ventures
Detective Nick Davis
Homicide Unit
New Orleans Police Department
Detective Michael Sartain
Major Case Narcotics Unit
New Orleans Police Department
Ryan Roberts
Mold, Wales, United Kingdom
Conversions - Fomer Business Partner
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FOR COUPLES
You know this love has great potential.
You love each other deeply and want to make this work but so much has happened.
The reality is, if the two of you don't take full responsibility for the parts you play as individuals and focus on what you are in control of (yourself)...
You won't be able to be the partner the other one needs you to be and...
You'll be forced to work on it in the next relationship.
So let's do it NOW.
It doesn't matter how big the list is:
Abandonment Wounds
Trust Issues
Deep Insecurities
Childhood Trauma
Communication Problems
Past Relationships Triggers
Lack of Acceptance of One Another
Your Families Getting Involved
Physical Attraction & Sex Concerns
Household Management Frustrations....
If you love each other and can commit to doing the work TOGETHER, by doing the work as individuals, I can facilitate the journey to a harmonious fulfilling relationship dynamic that excites, inspires & supports both of you as individuals and as a team.
FOR MEN
If you know that if things continue the way they are or get worse that the relationship will end...
It's time to stop focusing on what she's done or the part she's played
And start focusing on you.
Your Emotional Control.
Your Communication Skills.
Your Capacity To Listen & Have Empathy...
It's not longer enough to protect and provide physically.
If you want to become a man who can cultivate a harmonious fulfilling relationship through healthy masculine leadership...
FOR THE MAN ON A MISSION
12 Week 1-on-1
Coaching Program:
60-Min Weekly 1-on-1 Coaching Call
Personalized KTG Operating System
Full Access To KTG Training Videos (NO FLUFF)
Private 1:1 Text Support & Accountability
Full Access to Weekly War Room Group Coaching Calls (optional)
Full Access to War Room Community Of Brothers for Additional Support & All 4 Bonuses
1-on-1 Coaching: $5,000
30-DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
TESTIMONIALS FROM OTHER WOMEN
"When I hired Dylan, he came in and really helped me understand what self-love really was, he helped me build a better connection with myself and uncover some really hard truths. His consistecy and ability to show up is something I respect on such a deep level. He stays true to his word.
His level of compassion and desire for you to win is unlike anything I've ever seen. If he sees you not reaching your full potential, he's going to call you out on it. I don't know where I'd be without him. Dylan is all around absolutely incredible."
Aubree Cooper
2 Year Client - Life, Relationships & Business Business
""If you're looking for someone with 100% integrity, who keeps his word, and delivers on his promises, it's Dylan. I continued to renew with him over 2 years because he always delivered the result promised."
I also felt very seen & heard by Dylan in my personal development as he helped me work on my communication and confidence in my relationship."
Dr. Marina Buksov
2 Year Client - Life, Relationship & Business Coaching
"Working with Dylan for over a year was powerful on all fronts. You can tell he cares about you not just as a client, but as a human, as individuals and even friends. It's helped our relationship, health and business. When we started working with him the business was only making like $3k per month & Tanner was still working full time. By the end he left his job, went full time in the business and we generated over $300K."
Jamie & Tanner Hawk
1 Year Client - Relationship & Business Client
