IF YOU'RE NOT LEADING WITH STRENGTH,
YOU'RE LEADING WITH STRESS.
SHE DOESN'T FEEL SAFE. YOU DON'T FEEL RESPECTED.
Master your habits, emotions and communication-- or keep living in conflict
and disconnection until it ends.
You're not broken...
You’re just out of alignment with your design.
If you’re reading this, you probably already know something is off.
Your woman doesn’t respect you.
Your relationship feels heavy, disconnected, or filled with conflict.
You keep saying you want to lead, but deep down—you don’t trust yourself to.
And it shows up everywhere:
You hesitate to speak up.
You avoid hard conversations.
You react emotionally.
You break your own promises.
The result? You feel disrespected at home, disqualified at work, and disconnected from God.
But the truth is: this isn’t who you are. It’s just what happens when a man gets out of alignment.
It’s what happens when you lose integrity with yourself.
When you stop leading.
When you stop listening to God.
STEEL is the path to take it all back.
STEEL is not therapy.
It’s not group coaching. It’s not surface-level motivation.
It’s a proven 12-week leadership transformation designed to:
Rebuild your integrity
Reignite your spiritual discipline
Reclaim your masculine identity
Restore peace, respect, and intimacy at home
Because the truth is:
You can’t out-communicate a lack of leadership.
You can’t out-perform a lack of integrity.
You can’t out-hustle a broken foundation.
But you can fix it. Quickly.
With the right system. The right standards. And the right man in your corner.
Who this is for:
This is for the Christian man who:
Feels like he’s constantly letting himself and his woman down.
Hears “I love you but I don’t feel safe with you”.
Is tired of the conflict, disconnection, or lack of intimacy.
Knows he’s underperforming at work and at home.
Feels spiritually dull, emotionally reactive, and unclear.
And he’s ready to fix it. Not next year. Not when things fall apart. Now.
The Framework
STEEL is built on a 4-part transformation framework:
🔹 THE STEEL CODE:
Real Facts — Confront the truth.
Raw Feelings — Process emotional resistance.
Relevant Focus — Choose what you control.
Results & Fruit — Measure the outcomes.
📈THE STEEL PATH:
Pit of Poverty — Pain, passivity, disconnection
Peak of Prosperity — Power, peace, clarity
Principles of Power — Discipline, restraint, consistency
Path of Production — Habitual transformation
⛓️THE STEEL SYSTEM lights your personal path and holds you accountable to taking the steps from the pit you're in to the peak you desire (a harmonious fulfilling relationship as a Godly masculine leader).
🛠️THE STEEL STACKS equip you with the skills to confidently navigate challenges in your relationship with yourself, your gf/wife and most importantly God.
This is how you stop spiraling and start leading.
What's Included:
Your life will not change through prayer and will power alone. You need a plan.
Here’s what you get inside STEEL:
Weekly Live Brotherhood Calls — Real coaching. Real accountability.
Personalized Training & Frameworks — No fluff. No filler. Proven curriculum.
Performance Tracking Tools — So you never guess if you're growing.
Bonus: 1:1 Deep Dive Session — For strategy, support, or assessing solving order.
Bonus: Power Partner Academy — Navigate communication, conflict, and attraction inside your relationship.
Bonus: Functional Health Protocol — Full hormone testing, labs & personalized plan.
Everything you need to build the man you were called to be.
A Brotherhood, Not A Band-aid
We don’t do therapy talk or victimhood here.
We do truth, action, and accountability.
Every man inside this container is walking the same path:
Rebuilding trust with himself
Taking spiritual responsibility
Leading his relationship with strength and stability
Becoming the man he respects
You don’t need another book, podcast, or course. You need a standard.
And you need brothers who hold you to it.
Your Next Step:
This program isn’t open to everyone.
It’s for men who are serious.
Men who are tired of starting over.
Men who are ready to stop the spiral.
If that’s you, apply now.
We’ll go through your current situation, where you want to be, and see if STEEL is the right path to get you there.
If it is—we go. If it’s not—you’ll leave with clarity.
No pressure. Just truth. Book your call now.
Don't Take My Word For It
Hear from the men who have transformed their lives through the principles of STEEL.
These are the stories of real men - Successful Business Men, Marine Corps & Army Combat Veterans, Church Pastors, Fire Fighters, Construction Contractors, Cyber-Security Specialists, Engineers, Mechanics - You name it.
Men who rebuilt their confidence, leadership, & purpose and are now thriving in their health, relationships, spirituality and careers/businesses.
Jesse - Marine Corps Combat Veteran, Fire Fighter & Entrepreneur
Chandler - Wealth & Legacy Protection Expert
William - Swiss Cyber Security Expert
Joey - Hollywood Movie Set Constructor & Content Creator
500+ Clients | ZERO Refund Requests
STEEL
3 Month Group Coaching Program
Here’s what you’ll get when you join:
We will meet weekly to uncover & systematically overcome the guilt, shame, anger, inconsistency, and self-sabotaging habits.
Once liberated from these patterns, we will replace them with the right habits, building the discipline & integrity that cultivates unshakable trust and confidence.
From there, we will move into developing the communication skills & emotional regulation that will empower you to cultivate a harmonious fulfilling relationship & deep purpose in your work.
💥 3 Force Multiplier Bonuses:
Monthly 1:1 Deep Dive Coaching Sessions With Dylan— Providing a customized container for skill refinement & personal problem solving.
Full Access To Power Partner Academy— A self-paced course taught by my wife and I to help you unlock the secrets to navigating difficult conversations, women's hormones & the chemistry behind sustaining the passion & attraction.
Hormone Testing, Result Consultation & Personalized Protocol Provided By STEEL's Functional Medicine Team— Providing a clear path to optimal health, both mentally, physically & emotionally.
WHO IS DYLAN WARTER?
In 2018, eighteen months after his partner was shot and killed covering his shift, Dylan walked away from his job in the prime of his career as a Decorated Detective of The New Orleans S.W.A.T. Team with no idea what he was going to do with his life.
He found himself standing in the mirror, drunk (again), looking at a man who was 50 pounds heavier than he had ever been. He was working 80+ hours a week, battling depression, coping with alcohol and destroying his relationship with his now ex-fiancé.
Shortly after, they called off the wedding and ended a 5 year relationship. He was now single, struggling with insecurities, and overwhelmed with guilt, shame and anger. He had lost of all his discipline, felt unworthy and when he looked in the mirror, he saw a man he no longer believed in.
Feeling unequipped to deal with the traumas of both his childhood and former career, and now searching for a new purpose that wouldn't kill him, he embarked on an intense journey of healing & personal development.
Dylan has now spent 100's of thousands of dollars in education and mentorship, acquiring the knowledge, skills and experience to systematically transform every single area of his life and has now facilitated similar transformations for over 500 clients throughout the last 6 years.
He
found that much of what was out there was unnecessarily complex, often ineffective and too "woo-woo". He wanted practical, manual ways to solve inner problems and actually see the results progress in real time.
Through this experience he was in constant search for the most simple yet effective way to systematically help men transform and in that relentless search, he was able to distill it all down to STEEL, that is not only a system but a brotherhood and a standard that turns men into high-performing healthy masculine leaders capable of cultivating harmonious fulfilling relationships.
The transformation he is most proud of is the one within himself that enabled his relationship and wife to transform from being hyper-masculine, critical, controlling and overly independent, often leading to consistent conflict and disconnection... to a soft feminine partner who trusts his leadership and his now become his place of peace.
Naturally, having the relationship success stand out far beyond his business success, he chose to leave the world of business consulting and performance coaching in order to fuse everything he's learned into place that solves man's most painful problem, love.
As a successful coach, speaker and investor, Dylan is happily married to his beautiful wife, now writing his first book "Healing From Hell To Having It All" and working on having his first child.
THE STEEL STANDARD
The STEEL Standard is about living with purpose, discipline, integrity and accountability every single day.
It’s not about being perfect—it’s about showing up, doing the work, becoming a man of your word and striving to close the gap between where you are and where you want to be, which is a pin that will continuously move as you unlock new levels of potential and purpose in your life.
It's about the dedication to mastering the version of you who can cultivate a harmonious fulfilling relationship, elite health and fitness, financial prosperity and a relationship with God that will fill all of your endeavors with peace, joy and fulfillment.
This Is Your Moment
This is the moment where most men make a choice—they either finally take action, or they talk themselves out of it (again). And let’s be honest: if you don’t make the move right now, you won’t do it later. You’ll close out of this page, go back distracting & sedating yourself from the truth, and a year from now, you’ll be in the exact same place—except worse.
So if you’re even considering booking the call, do it now so you don't rob yourself of another opportunity to finally break through to the next level of you as a man and the life you're longing to live.
THE FURNACE
Scottsdale, AZ | 2-Day Event
Date: March TBD | Venue: TBD
Steel isn’t made; it’s forged. The process begins with raw, unrefined iron—impure and weak. To become steel, it must be placed into a furnace, where extreme heat burns away its impurities and leaves behind only what is strong. The fire reshapes it, strengthens it, and prepares it to endure.
The same is true for men.
When you step into The Furnace, you’ll face the fire. The fire exposes the lies you’ve been living with—the fears, insecurities, habits, and coping mechanisms that have weakened you as a leader, a partner, and a man. It will burn away the excuses that have held you back and the impurities that have kept you from being who you’re meant to be.
The process won’t be comfortable. You’ll face truths you’ve been avoiding and emotions you’ve been running from. But just like steel, the fire doesn’t destroy you—it refines you. Through challenges, truth, and the brotherhood around you, you’ll rebuild the foundation of who you are. You’ll leave stronger, more disciplined, and forged to withstand life’s pressures.
The man who enters The Furnace is not the man who will emerge. The weak version of you dies here. What remains is a man ready to lead himself, his relationships, and his purpose with unshakable strength and confidence.
Are you ready to face the fire?
THE TUNGSTEN COUNCIL
ELITE MASTERMIND
Not all steel is created equal. The strongest, most resilient form of metal is tungsten—able to withstand the greatest pressures and the highest heat. It’s forged through precision and refinement, just like the men who are invited into the Tungsten Council.
The Tungsten Council is not for every man. It’s for those who have met the Standard of STEEL and have the fruit to prove it—men who have proven their discipline, integrity, and strength, and are ready to pursue what most would call impossible. This is where great men become extraordinary.
As a member of Tungsten, you will refine your leadership and focus while tackling your biggest goals with precision and purpose. Together with an elite brotherhood of men who uphold the same standard, you’ll challenge limits, collaborate on solutions, and return stronger with every cycle.
The founding council members are comprised of a group of men Dylan runs with. Men who have the knowledge, skills, experience and expertise to help you take ever area of your life to the next level.
What Tungsten Offers:
Relentless Growth: Weekly Coaching Calls with council members only, to maintain momentum, accountability, to continuously take life, fitness, relationship, business and building wealth to the next level.
Elite Collaboration: Quarterly mastermind events designed for men to return and report their progress, bring their most pressing challenges, and leverage the wisdom and resources of the brotherhood to find solutions.
Exclusive Access: Monthly Round Table Cigar Nights With Founding Council Members.
Tungsten is not a program; it’s a proving ground. The men here are not satisfied with “good enough.” They’re building legacies that endure. As iron sharpens iron, so does the brotherhood within Tungsten elevate each man to his fullest potential.
This is not for the faint of heart or the man looking for shortcuts. It’s for leaders who are ready to achieve the impossible, inspire those who follow, and leave a mark that lasts.
INVITATION ONLY
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Specialized Units & Business Ventures
Detective Nick Davis
Homicide Unit
New Orleans Police Department
Detective Michael Sartain
Major Case Narcotics Unit
New Orleans Police Department
Ryan Roberts
Mold, Wales, United Kingdom
Conversions - Fomer Business Partner
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FOR COUPLES
You know this love has great potential.
You love each other deeply and want to make this work but so much has happened.
The reality is, if the two of you don't take full responsibility for the parts you play as individuals and focus on what you are in control of (yourself)...
You won't be able to be the partner the other one needs you to be and...
You'll be forced to work on it in the next relationship.
So let's do it NOW.
It doesn't matter how big the list is:
Abandonment Wounds
Trust Issues
Deep Insecurities
Childhood Trauma
Communication Problems
Past Relationships Triggers
Lack of Acceptance of One Another
Your Families Getting Involved
Physical Attraction & Sex Concerns
Household Management Frustrations....
If you love each other and can commit to doing the work TOGETHER, by doing the work as individuals, I can facilitate the journey to a harmonious fulfilling relationship dynamic that excites, inspires & supports both of you as individuals and as a team.
FOR MEN
If you know that if things continue the way they are or get worse that the relationship will end...
It's time to stop focusing on what she's done or the part she's played
And start focusing on you.
Your Emotional Control.
Your Communication Skills.
Your Capacity To Listen & Have Empathy...
It's not longer enough to protect and provide physically.
If you want to become a man who can cultivate a harmonious fulfilling relationship through healthy masculine leadership...
FOR THE MAN ON A MISSION
12 Week 1-on-1
Coaching Program:
60-Min Weekly 1-on-1 Coaching Call
Personalized KTG Operating System
Full Access To KTG Training Videos (NO FLUFF)
Private 1:1 Text Support & Accountability
Full Access to Weekly War Room Group Coaching Calls (optional)
Full Access to War Room Community Of Brothers for Additional Support & All 4 Bonuses
1-on-1 Coaching: $5,000
30-DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
TESTIMONIALS FROM OTHER WOMEN
"When I hired Dylan, he came in and really helped me understand what self-love really was, he helped me build a better connection with myself and uncover some really hard truths. His consistecy and ability to show up is something I respect on such a deep level. He stays true to his word.
His level of compassion and desire for you to win is unlike anything I've ever seen. If he sees you not reaching your full potential, he's going to call you out on it. I don't know where I'd be without him. Dylan is all around absolutely incredible."
Aubree Cooper
2 Year Client - Life, Relationships & Business Business
""If you're looking for someone with 100% integrity, who keeps his word, and delivers on his promises, it's Dylan. I continued to renew with him over 2 years because he always delivered the result promised."
I also felt very seen & heard by Dylan in my personal development as he helped me work on my communication and confidence in my relationship."
Dr. Marina Buksov
2 Year Client - Life, Relationship & Business Coaching
"Working with Dylan for over a year was powerful on all fronts. You can tell he cares about you not just as a client, but as a human, as individuals and even friends. It's helped our relationship, health and business. When we started working with him the business was only making like $3k per month & Tanner was still working full time. By the end he left his job, went full time in the business and we generated over $300K."
Jamie & Tanner Hawk
1 Year Client - Relationship & Business Client
